Monday Meme: The Sexual Meme

Strawberry's a pe~rv. Strawberry's a pe~rv. I find her desire to perv all over our sexual histories very funny, and who knows I might even tell the truth now and then, and doing something extra-spicy for the kind-of-one-year-anniversary is understandable. I'm going to share a small selection of my more risque pictures (which by Second Life standards are fairly tame), so I hope you enjoy.

1. What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – I'm very straight. I've gotten offers from female friends, and been told I read as bisexual, but I'm actually on a rather extreme Kinsey scale - as in I don't even fantasize about other women. I always feel like this gives me a certain amount of comfort with other peoples' sexual orientations; since I'm so settled in mine, other peoples' aren't a threat at all.


2. Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – I love piercing eyes and longish, mussy hair. I blame most of what I'm attracted to on Jareth, from Labyrinth, who was, in fact, my first major crush in the fifth grade. I was fascinated with him for years. The odd thing is that my taste is so at odds with what society seems to say I should find attractive - don't give me muscle-bound; give me slim, tight, and wearing eyeliner. I simply don't buy that cosmetics are feminine only.


3. Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I was raped by an ex-boyfriend, which seriously damaged my ability to trust men, but I have a very high libido. I'm not sure where that means I fall - not many sexual partners, but very sexually active might cover it. I can be prudish in my discussion of things; a lot of purple prose, stuttering, and blushing.


4. What turns you on? – Bondage. My interest in bondage and in being helpless actually goes back almost as far as my interest in Jareth did, and certainly before I was interested in sexual relationships with others. I recently found out about suspension bondage and I think it looks amazing. The irony of having trust issues while wanting to try suspension bondage is not lost on me.


5. Are you dominant or submissive? – I'm a submissive and had a year relationship with a Master in my early twenties. I'm on Fetlife, but my attempts to join the local scene were exhausting and not terribly rewarding, so that part of my life in a partnered sense is pretty small




6. Are you into sexual roleplay? – I've never done it, but it sounds fun (unless you count my BDSM... but I don't consider that roleplay as such). A lot of my fantasies are the kinds of things which would be much safer to do with roleplaying, rather than in actuality, and I imagine fulfilling them would be very... fulfilling.


7. Which sexual position is your favorite? – I love when I'm sitting on a surface parallel to my partners ...jewels with him standing. Really, really... really love it, and highly recommend it. I have no idea what that's called; my experience is less book-driven and more experiential.


8. Do you have any fetishes? – Not in the traditional sense of fetish - where it is required for sexual release. I have things which would colloquially be called fetishes, since I have been involved in the BDSM community, but I can have and enjoy vanilla sex, too.


9. Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – No, really not so much. My choices would be limited, and I don't find the scenario to be a turn on. I've been acquaintances with sex workers, though, and I know some women really enjoy it. Part of me thinks those women are braver and more honest than I am, and I'm not sure how to reconcile it all - if there is shame for saying no to sexual things, than we aren't really sexually liberated in any meaningful way.


10. Do you consider yourself sexy? – Much more goofy than sexy, but this may be part of inculcation by my second boyfriend. I would try to be sexy, and he'd undermine me every time, and so now I mostly focus on bubbly and cute, since it's a strength.Any attempt to be a form of sexy I am comfortable with is pointless on Second Life, as well - in a world where bunches of people walk around naked, a coquettish flash of the flesh between stocking top and panty simply isn't as alluring.

( More pictures here. )