Monday, May 13, 2013

Monday Meme: My SL Guilty Confessions Meme


  1. I wish more people bothered me. This sounds weird and pathetic, but since I started my "How NOT to..." series, I've really been sad when I've gone months and months without anyone harassing me so I can't make a funny post and feel all witty and awesome. They're also huge drivers of traffic, and I like seeing my numbers go up, even if it's a halo effect and no one extra really starts reading my blog. I also like the random fun conversations that pop up where I meet someone new and they are awesome. I've been considering actually saying hi to people more just to get some of the fun (I mean, the teenager asking if I thought teenagers should be allowed in Second Life was a giggle, but it's so short it wouldn't make a good post).

  2. My inventory is meticulously organized in terms of clothing. My subfolders have subfolders which have subfolders. One of my favorites is: Clothing / Clothing By Color / [Color] / Accessories / Jewelry / Sets - see how deep it is? It's fantastic and means I can often find what I'm looking for very easily. I organize by color except for my hair, which is overwhelmingly blond and organized by length and style, and when I'm dressing I often begin with the color I want to wear.

  3. I hate being naked in Second Life. I've gotten more comfortable with temporary nudity between outfits, but for a long time I changed between two outfits without ever flashing my naughty bits anywhere. I've also relaxed a little on showing skin in pictures, but I still prefer my more complicated outfits to something like a simple bikini.

  4. I am judging you. By and large, I will keep it to myself, but I am judging, and forming opinions, and sometimes thinking insulting things and rolling my eyes. And sometimes I'm thinking you're amazing, in which case I might speak up, but I try to keep my judgy nitpicks to myself, which is why I love the bothering in Confession 1, because it gives me an excuse to let my inner judgy person out to breathe a little bit.

  5. I love Second Life Drama. Not enough to start it deliberately - I'm not a troll - but I find what people get upset about, and why, and how completely riveting. I think what upsets us and makes us feel threatened tells a lot about who we are, and so whenever there's drama I'm there on the sidelines mainlining strawberries and trying to figure out all of the different perspectives.

  6. If there's a rainbow on it, I'll buy it. I'll also always nag creator friends to make rainbow things. I try to not be obnoxious about it but... I really do love rainbows.

Just Smile

( More pictures here. )


Skin: De La Soul, Candace (promotional item)
Eyes: De La Soul, Rainbow (promotional item)
Ears: Illusions, Seelie Ears
Eyelashes 1: SLink, Mesh Lashes
Eyelashes 2: Flugeln Brise, 05-A
Eyeshadow: White Widow, Asia
Lipstick: Adore & Abhor, 13 Lips Fire Red
Hair: Secrets Hair, Marie (promotional item)
Wings: Fancy Fairy, Azarelle
Dress: Purple Moon Creations, Dragonfly Gown (Group Gift)

Poses: Croire

Location: It all starts with a smile
Light Settings: Incongruent Truths
Water Settings: Glassy

Photographed by Deoridhe Quandry
Post processing: Cropping, only


  1. I don't mind my naked avatar, but I rarely AM naked. I usually add new clothing items then remove the old ones. When I DO get naked, I'm always shocked, and a little embarrassed! This doesn't apply to showing my bum in photos, however...I happen to love it lol

  2. speaking of rainbows...have you seen this?

  3. Haa haa, yay bum showing. I'm more comfortable with my bim showing than other things.


  4. That's it, it's settled! Totally hiring you to organize my inventory! :P

  5. Haa haa haa haa~ Once you get the folders set up it's pretty easy. XD